how to identify whether a girl is virgin
Ahem… I am about to touch a few raw nerves in this article. Though some of you may hate to admit it, but it could be a fact that the clos...
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Ahem… I am about to touch a few raw nerves in this article. Though some
of you may hate to admit it, but it could be a fact that the closest
you have ever come to having sex is when you give yourself a good old
massage while watching porn in the privacy of your room.
Sure, you may have had girlfriends, but you might not have gathered the courage to get into their pants… yet.
But now, you have finally managed to hit the jackpot. Your present girlfriend is not only enthusiastic about the idea of sleeping with you; her eagerness regarding the idea is actually making you jittery. The pressure to perform can make the best of players nervous. And it’s even worse for a debutant with zero experience. Before I move into the basic techniques that can easily be used by inexperienced men to pleasure a woman, let’s find out whether or not you should reveal the fact of your virginity to your girl.
But, if you have been seeing a girl for the past few months and she is really into you, then you should already have a pretty fair idea of how she thinks. If you think she would be comfortable with guiding your virgin instincts, then don’t fret and tell her the truth.
Moreover, it would pay to waste a few just so that you can get enough practice before hand on how to properly wear a condom. Okay you should ideally squeeze the front tip and roll the condom all the way to the base of your penis. It would also be wise to stick to the usual brands. You can try the more creative and playful ones like Crezendo (with the vibrating ring) later
Also practice Kegels – an exercise that strengthens the muscles attached to the pelvic bone. These muscles actually control the flow of the urine and by doing Kegel exercises, you can control your ejaculations for hours on end.
So while peeing, just stop midway to hold it in. This will help you locate the muscles. Once you are able to locate the particular muscles, just tighten and relax those muscles at least 150 times a day. There couldn’t be a simpler exercise.
The second point is to masturbate before you go to meet her if you are reasonably sure that sex is on the charts. A vessel overflowing with juices is sure to leak, and cause a mess.
Always be well groomed
Whether you are getting lucky or not, proper grooming always is very essential. But it’s all the more important when you are about to get butt naked in front of your girl for the first time. Starting with the basics like clean nails, and no nasty body odour, you should also ensure that the boxers you wear are clean and the pubic jungle is neat and trimmed.
Go slow
One of the biggest mistakes that guys tend to make is that they get too excited and ejaculate before anything even happened. You don’t want that to happen to you. So start slowly and take you time.
Hold your penis and gently rub it against her labia. This should ideally drive her crazy and she will start begging you to penetrate her. Keep looking into her eyes as you glide in and out. Use your hands to stroke the rest of her body and keep kissing her and nuzzling her breasts. Remember the time is all about her, so do your best to maximise her pleasure.
Like everything else in life, one needs a lot of practice to perfect oneself in the art of sex. Only with time and regular practice, will you understand the things that turn her on. But if you concentrate on pleasing her and make sure that she enjoys herself, she will really appreciate your generosity. If you put her pleasure before yours, then you are already on your way to becoming an ace lover.
Sure, you may have had girlfriends, but you might not have gathered the courage to get into their pants… yet.
But now, you have finally managed to hit the jackpot. Your present girlfriend is not only enthusiastic about the idea of sleeping with you; her eagerness regarding the idea is actually making you jittery. The pressure to perform can make the best of players nervous. And it’s even worse for a debutant with zero experience. Before I move into the basic techniques that can easily be used by inexperienced men to pleasure a woman, let’s find out whether or not you should reveal the fact of your virginity to your girl.
To tell or not to tell
Well, it’s all too great for a girl to admit that she’s never had sex before. Not quite the case with guys though. And admitting the same to a woman with experience is even harder. So while there might be a few who would actually relish the idea of deflowering a virgin, there would be several more who wouldn’t quite like the idea of taking the lead and teaching you the ropes.But, if you have been seeing a girl for the past few months and she is really into you, then you should already have a pretty fair idea of how she thinks. If you think she would be comfortable with guiding your virgin instincts, then don’t fret and tell her the truth.
The basic preparation
While we all know that the best sex is the spontaneous kind, still you should make sure that you are always prepared for the inevitable. So here are a few ground rules:
Always carry rubber
Make sure that you always carry a few condoms with you, if there is the slightest possibility that you would be bedding her. There can be no greater tragedy to have a night of sexual bliss hindered just because you were careless enough to meet her without carrying the all important condoms.Moreover, it would pay to waste a few just so that you can get enough practice before hand on how to properly wear a condom. Okay you should ideally squeeze the front tip and roll the condom all the way to the base of your penis. It would also be wise to stick to the usual brands. You can try the more creative and playful ones like Crezendo (with the vibrating ring) later
Jerk to survive
This basically means two things. You should start practicing to control your urge to ejaculate any time you your play with junior. This will help you to last longer when you enter the doors of heaven for the first time.
Also practice Kegels – an exercise that strengthens the muscles attached to the pelvic bone. These muscles actually control the flow of the urine and by doing Kegel exercises, you can control your ejaculations for hours on end.
So while peeing, just stop midway to hold it in. This will help you locate the muscles. Once you are able to locate the particular muscles, just tighten and relax those muscles at least 150 times a day. There couldn’t be a simpler exercise.
The second point is to masturbate before you go to meet her if you are reasonably sure that sex is on the charts. A vessel overflowing with juices is sure to leak, and cause a mess.
Always be well groomed
Whether you are getting lucky or not, proper grooming always is very essential. But it’s all the more important when you are about to get butt naked in front of your girl for the first time. Starting with the basics like clean nails, and no nasty body odour, you should also ensure that the boxers you wear are clean and the pubic jungle is neat and trimmed.
Time for some action
When the day finally comes, stay calm, cool and collected. Don’t allow yourself to succumb to performance anxiety and start feeling that you would make a fool of yourself. The best way to appear more experienced than you really are is to make the moment all about her. Become the giver and she will love you for it!Go slow
One of the biggest mistakes that guys tend to make is that they get too excited and ejaculate before anything even happened. You don’t want that to happen to you. So start slowly and take you time.
Feel her
Now that you finally have her in bed, take all the time you want to explore her beauty. Gently kiss her lips and her neck. Nuzzle her breasts and let your tongue taste the bumpy delicious texture of her nipples. And finally go down on her to explore her vagina with your tongue.Penetration
Finally when you are prepared to penetrate her, go slow and take the time to relish the feeling of your penis entering her soft, slippery vagina. If you have aroused her adequately during the foreplay, her vagina would be moist and inviting. Start off with short, brief strokes and tease her with the tip of your penis.Hold your penis and gently rub it against her labia. This should ideally drive her crazy and she will start begging you to penetrate her. Keep looking into her eyes as you glide in and out. Use your hands to stroke the rest of her body and keep kissing her and nuzzling her breasts. Remember the time is all about her, so do your best to maximise her pleasure.
Like everything else in life, one needs a lot of practice to perfect oneself in the art of sex. Only with time and regular practice, will you understand the things that turn her on. But if you concentrate on pleasing her and make sure that she enjoys herself, she will really appreciate your generosity. If you put her pleasure before yours, then you are already on your way to becoming an ace lover.
